Liebster Award for the win!

. The Liebster award? Come again? A fellow traveller and blogger, Simone Armer, recently tagged me in a post on Facebook nominating me for this (is it prestigious?) award. She too was nominated for the award and answered questions about life in Japan, where she is currently based. Her beautiful photos and sharp writing come together wonderfully to form Paintings from the Cave.Thank you Simone for the nomination and questions. A suggestion from me to you, if you do one useful thing today, go check out her blog here.

Back to my newly acquired nomination. Like all ‘youths’ in my day, I sought counsel from my good friend “Google” to find out more about the nomination. From what I can gather, this nomination is a way to expose smaller blogs and to network the blogging world. The rules are simple: accept or decline your nomination, thank and provide the link to your nominator’s blog, answer their questions and finally nominate five blogs for the award while providing your own set of questions. Here goes! 

1. Knowing what you know now, if you could go back and tell yourself one piece of advice before you set out on your current journey, what would it be?

“Nadia...prepare your taste-buds for a journey of their own.” Let’s place that in context: I remember my body going into reflex mode as it was ready to gag and hurl the first silkworm larvae I had ever eaten here in Korea. When I threw it into my mouth and bit, the little bugger burst like a swollen grape and the pungent juices flowed into my mouth. One chew and a quick swallow later, I was done with it! I will never do it again. But I did it and I didn’t die thanks to a huge gulp of booze.

2. What is your biggest inner conflict when you travel?

‘Should I take this? Should I leave this? Oh but I MIGHT need this?” That gives me sleepless nights.

3. What do you tell people about your home country?

A day or two before I left Eshowe, as my grandfather’s car curved around the green hills, I remember looking at the brilliant blue sky, white puffy clouds and sugar-cane fields. It felt like my country was saying goodbye in the best way it knew how. I tell my kids that I teach about the beautiful weather South Africa has to offer and I even miss the stinking heat waves! Amazing how you only realise it when you are gone. I also tell of the different languages, cultures, foods and religions that South Africa is so blessed to contain. When living in such a homogenous country such as South Korea, you realise how you took diversity for granted in South Africa. I have become quite patriotic!

4. Which place, where you are now, serves the best food? What is your favorite dish there?

To be honest, my favourite ‘dish’ here in Korea is the chicken on a stick which is served almost everywhere in Busan! The chicken is tender, cooked on an open grill by street vendors and is usually coated either with a sweet and sticky sauce or a spicy sauce. I feel like I don’t get enough chicken in the week so when I do find my fix, I make a mad dash for the queue and wait patiently for my happiness to be served on a wooden stick. *You can find these vendors almost everywhere in Busan, I’m not sure about the rest of Korea*

5. What is something you wish you could bring from home in abundant supply?

I would love to have hugs from my family in a bottle that I could just whip out and use each time I need a big hug! I miss pap, Five Roses Tea, brown bread (I only seem to find white bread in the local stores), cheese in blocks (again, you will usually find cheese in slices! Agrrr), and I miss the awesome adverts that play on SA screens. I mean who can forget, “I love it when you talk foreign?”

6.  What is something you’d like to take home in abundant supply?

Kimchi, the sticky chicken, Korean BBQ, the sticky chicken, green tea and did I mention the sticky chicken? I’m a foodie as you may have noticed. J

7.  What is something you packed that has served you well?

My Tomy Takkies have served me well over this period in Korea! I took time choosing them before I left and I wear them everywhere. They boarded my flight out of SA with me, they kept my toes warm when I literally froze during the tail-end of Korea’s winter and they have walked kilometer after kilometer with me as I have explored my new home.

8.  What of your home country do you see in the country you live in now?

Respect for elders. There is a respect for older people here in Korea that I am able to identify with considering I had such a close bond with my grandparents growing up. I really admire a nation that is able to tend to and remember the older folk that helped build and still keep the nation alive.

Anyway! Here are my questions for the following bloggers who are either living in another country or have recently soared to new destinations:

Erica:   The Bartletts Abroad

Alex:     Ninja Teacher

Elna:    Sometimes Elna Blogs 

Kate:   Keeping Tabs on Kate

Ilze:      Ilze in Korea

a)   Why did you decide to use blogging as a way of capturing your adventures? Why not Facebook, Twitter etc?

b)   What was the scariest thing about leaving your country?

c)    I am a student leaving University. Tell me why I should travel?

d)   Describe a food (make my mouth water!) you have had on your travels that    made your eyes water from happiness (or possibly too much spice!)?

e)   Describe the moment when you knew you had made the right choice to travel?

f)     Solo travel or group travel? Why?

g)    How have you dealt with challenging cultural differences?

Nadia xo

I'm living in Busan! A South African in (South) Korea

I have been living and working in Busan, South Korea for over a month. This realisation hit me last week when I saw posts on Facebook talking about the same thing that had been running over and over in my head. We did it...I did it… Shoo! I'm a South African teaching English in South Korea - yaaaas! 

Applying to teach English in South Korea

Before we get cracking, lets lay some foundations. I began the Epik process in September 2013 and officially applied to teach English in South Korea by October. I won’t run through the whole process here as it was loooonnngggg and you can check it out yourself over here and here. 

I went through a South African based recruiter, Teach Korea. After heaps of paperwork, screening, a nerve-wrecking Skype interview, MORE paperwork, flight bookings and travel insurance, next thing you know, I am in Korea attending an orientation, eating new foods, meeting hoards of new English teachers from around the world, and fighting jet-lag. The most real moment came though when my co-teacher picked me up and I wasn't with everyone anymore... It was just me and my co-teacher. Me and my new life. 

Beginning life in Busan

I remember my co-teacher leaving me in my apartment after she had helped me figure out how I was going to survive my new life in the city. I stood there for a few seconds after she had left and realized, “Ok Nadia, you’re alone and in the city. A foreign city. You can cry and feel overwhelmed or you can sort your place (and your head) out.” So, while still feeling completely overwhelmed by everything, I chose to cracking with cleaning and moving into my new home. And I guess since then, I have tried to stay focused and just keep on moving. 

I was cleaning my place again this past weekend and I thought back to those first hours I was alone. I thought about how comfortable I feel at this very moment. How I have made friends, how I can now take the subway and not panic that I may get lost. I'm ok being alone in my place and just getting on with it. I'm so grateful to God for blessing me with sincere co-workers and some very interesting children at my school that keep me active and giggling. I think I have been very fortunate with how things have started out and hopefully this continues into my second month!

A South African English teacher's observation of Korea

Now I would like to think that I am pretty observant, so, I have compiled a list of things that have intrigued me over the past month here in Korea. This hopefully gives you a glimpse into the life of an expat in Southeast Asia.

• It is so cold in winter! Coming from South Africa, Kwa-Zulu Natal, I found myself wearing four layers of clothing each time I went outside because Korea gets cold man! Yoh! I was streaming Busan English Radio the other day and I was horrified to hear the anchor say: "And today in your weather... Busan will have a high of 12 degrees Celsius and a low of 0 degrees Celsius...". I was like, "Excuse me, come again?!" So yes, I am slowly dealing with the frosty temperatures, dry legs and icy classrooms. 

• Bowing in Korea: I think the act of bowing when you greet people here in Korea is great! I generally bow to those that are older than me (that is generally everyone at my school lol) and I even bow at my kids, when they greet me! I think they think I'm strange :) I find it wonderfully respectful, and it reminds me of my home town and how I was raised to respect people older than you. So yeah, rock on Korea!  

• Public Transport in Busan, South Korea: the trains, buses, taxis etc. in this country are fantastic! I love being able to hop onto a train alone, arriving safely and quickly at the opposite end of the city. I feel independent and this is a vast change from the transport system back home in South Africa. There are four train lines in Busan: 1- Orange line, 2- Green line, 3- Brown line and 4- Blue line. There is also the Busan Gimhae Light Rail Transit line (purple line). I pay around R12. Each day I take the green line and leave my area of Deokcheon to travel one stop to school (yes, I'm being lazy, but the trains for now are still exciting for me!). 

• Korean food is.... AMAZE! Sometimes I look at something edible and wonder, “what in the world is that?” but once I take a bite/slurp/lick or whiff of the food, I am generally very happy with the outcome. I have yet to be disappointed! Buying groceries is always an adventure; I sometimes stand by the dairy isle trying to figure out where the butter is? Or how do I ask for brown bread from the cashier, who is watching me with the same interest as that of a kid looking in on a lion at the zoo? Buying groceries was the easiest thing for me back in South Africa, now I have to really consider what I need, and how I plan to get it. Veggies and fruit are slightly expensive, so I try to buy them from street vendors because the quality is really good and the prices are much better. ALSO there is something cool about supporting local traders and trying to use your beginner language skills to make conversation. 

• Coffee culture in South Korea: On my street alone, there are six coffee shops, and they are beautiful inside and out! I have only tried two of them so far and I think in the future I will dedicate a post to the coffee culture in Busan. I was happily surprised when on my first encounter with a cuppa from Korea, the Barista sprinkled cinnamon on my cappuccino and offered me Sugar Syrup. What you may ask is this Sugar Syrup sorcery? My suggestion would be for you to try it and then decide if sugar will ever have a place in your life again :)

• Men spitting in streets, sewage smells... Things I haven't been able to get used to include people (mostly men from what I've seen) spitting on the pavement if they need to, and nobody batting an eyelid! You'll see a handsome fellow walking towards you, and while you're trying to give him the cute eye, he draws his snot into his mouth (loudly) and then spits. And this happens all over. There is also a foul sewage stench that just doesn't go away in my area. The worst is when you are walking home and you need that extra gulp of air, but you take in an extra gulp of the yummy sewage-smelling air. This generally causes you to lose a few seconds of life, and then you regain consciousness when you keep walking. Not my favourite at all. Bleh...

• Being stared at in Korea: People, young and old will stare at you. Why? Well because you are different. You have a different skin and hair colour, hair texture and you stick out in a country that is quite homogenous. I think people stare mainly out of interest. I usually just smile and greet in Korean or sometimes I even wave. Take it all in I say!  

Well, that’s it for now! If you have any questions, comments or observations, please feel free to contact me  or comment below.

Nadia